"The only closure you can have is the peace that you have with yourself for erecting a boundary and keeping it up." WOW, YES.
I unfortunately felt like I was given an ultimatum to reconnect with someone before I was ready (who knows if I ever would have been ready, but I know I wasn't when I was basically told I would lose more people if I didn't). I am still angry and I am still resentful I let this person back in my life. I say all this because you absolutely know what is best for you, every damn day you can put your finger on your pulse and ask yourself. No one else can do that for you and I am so grateful to have read this as a reminder of that in myself too.
"The only closure you can have is the peace that you have with yourself for erecting a boundary and keeping it up." WOW, YES.
I unfortunately felt like I was given an ultimatum to reconnect with someone before I was ready (who knows if I ever would have been ready, but I know I wasn't when I was basically told I would lose more people if I didn't). I am still angry and I am still resentful I let this person back in my life. I say all this because you absolutely know what is best for you, every damn day you can put your finger on your pulse and ask yourself. No one else can do that for you and I am so grateful to have read this as a reminder of that in myself too.
Thank you for sharing <3